Interpersonal Communication Skills (IPS)
ips training... For anyone who wants to understand and develop the key micro-skills and behaviours that help build and sustain positive relationships with others.
90 minute, half & full day workshopsThe Power of Language
The Power of Language
Training Courses
Little things make a big difference - and that's particularly true of the language we use. These training courses will reveal all...
Two people may meet, both wanting a successful outcome; but somehow, that isn't achieved, and neither party knows why. The reason is often to do with how they communicated with each other, creating an unintentionally negative working relationship...
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Micro language, micro behaviours
We cannot not communicate, and much of what we say or do - how we talk and behave - is unconscious, automatic. Yet how we communicate verbally, and through tone and body language - including the specific words we choose - can make the difference between creating a positive or negative impact.
Key choices
In any interaction there are choices to be made, between what we say and how we say it. We will cover the most important choices in these courses, including: - questions or statements? - active or passive? - direct or indirect? - visual, auditory or kinaesthetic?
Interpersonal skills
The key skills and techniques that show you are, and have been, listening, ensure you ask appropriate questions, use words and body language to establish rapport, and acknowledge and value the other person will all be developed on these courses.
Currencies
If you live in the UK your currency of choice would typically be pounds sterling. If you went to France for a holiday, you'd probably take the host's currency - Euros. The idea of relevant currencies is really helpful as a communication tool. If we take currency to mean our preferred way of communicating, then we each hove our own preferences, but that may not be the currency preference of those we are working with. These courses will take you through the top ten currencies most people relate to, and how to use them effectively. You will be able to use our questionnaire to assess your own currency preference.
Common pitfalls, and how to avoid them
The 8 most common pitfalls - including qualifiers, redundancies and nominalisations - and how to recognise then avoid them...
Who is powerful language training for?
Our power of language workshops are ideal for anyone who wants to examine in more detail how verbal language and tone, and body language, can help or harm both effective communication, and a working relationship. They are particularly relevant for anyone who wants to:
Know, in personal communication, which 'little things' make the biggest difference, and why.
Harness the power of language to enhance interpersonal communication skills.
Understand currencies and recognise currency preferences in self and others.
Recognise then avoid the most common language pitfalls.
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The short course clearly demonstrates, through several examples, how, in personal communication terms, little things make a big difference. The half day course builds on this groundwork, and takes a deeper look at inter-personal skills, currencies, and the most common pitfalls. (Participants will be encouraged to bring in any written work of theirs, to see if there is clear evidence of any currency preferences or pitfalls.) On the full day course, participants will have the opportunity to write or run a conversation, both of which will provide opportunities to test and develop the morning's learning.
Never 'death by powerpoint'
We always provide a variety of learning approaches in each of our workshops.
Each workshop typically includes learning input from the trainer, supported by a range of mixed media, interactive elements, discussion and group work. Most workshops also include case work and practical skill-development activities to apply the learning, with more time dedicated to this in the longer courses.
'Want more?' resource pack
In addition to providing a copy of any slide deck, we always provide a ‘want more’ section, of curated resources including book summaries, podcasts, downloads and articles.
your ideas & suggestions
casework
core learning input
solo activities
presentation (solo or group)
open discussion
paired activities
tools & templates
My attention can easily wander, but this was never the case here, largely due to the variety of learning approaches used. Never a dull moment!
What are the benefits of powerful language training?
More awareness of what works, and what doesn't in terms of micro-communication
Ability to better match own communication to others' preferences
Better outcomes because of improved communication skills
Making better decisions about words, tone and body language
The Power Of Language Frequently Asked Quesitons
Can thinking about what and how to communicate seem false and reduce spontaneity?
Yes...but it tends to be a short term, rather than a long term problem: if your ideal is to form good communication habits, then they will need more conscious effort to begin with - but they will become more natural over time. And you may want to consider whether the potential lack of spontaneity is worth a better overall outcome...
Will knowing about micro-communications make me more frustrated with unskilled communicators?
That is up to you. It might, but it also could make you more tolerant - and reinforce your commitment to continue to invest in good communication skills and techniques.
I think I'm a good communicator - but what if I'm wrong?
Then take one of these courses. At the very least you'll be able to assess if you know or use any of the skills or techniques covered...
Which of these courses would it best for me to take?
That depends on your current knowledge, skill and commitment level. Quite simply, the more you want to learn and demonstrate the range of key skills and techniques, the more beneficial it will be to take the longer options.
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